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Caroline Beuley's avatar

This is SO true!! I love the idea of filling your life with worthwhile pursuits so there’s no time left for Instagram. It’s not about taking something away, it’s adding more high quality pursuits :) love this as always!

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candice's avatar

yes that's a great way to put it, high quality pursuits! thank you for reading🩷

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Rose's avatar

Omg this is a gold mine. Thank you for all of these ideas! They remind me of tasks that could fall under Mihály Csíkszentmihályi's definition of Flow. I'm hoping to read it soon (once I get a copy in my hands), but he writes about how having a goal that balances between challenge and ease, gives clear feedback on if you're doing it well, and gives you a sense of power and accomplishment can make you feel fulfilled. Happy. Not pleasure, a temporary feeling like you get from scrolling. A longer lasting, impactful happy.

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candice's avatar

you're so welcome🩷 I'm glad you find this post useful, and I definitely need to read that book! finding something with the right amount of challenge is definitely important, I like those ideas!

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Pluplo's avatar

I just did a research on the book, found it on a website with delivery to where I live in Europe. The first suggestion of a book was White Nights by Dostoyevsky.. 🫣 am I missing some connection between the two? Or was it a glitch in the Matrix? I am spiralling down

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Rose's avatar

That's another one on my TBR! What connections are you finding?

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Kim Conner's avatar

Love love love this! I teach high school, and I frequently find that my kids have no idea how to entertain themselves without the phone. Their curiosity is non-existent. I think I'll add a plan for the begining of the year to have the kids do what you've done in this post... Thanks for sharing.

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candice's avatar

wow that would be absolutely incredible. I often think about how difficult it must be for kids and teens nowadays, I just could not imagine being that age right now. this truly makes me really happy and i think you're doing a wonderful job to care about them so much and try to make a difference in your own way. thank you for reading kim 🩷🩷

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Zar's avatar

Well now i have the perfect summer bucket list thanks to this post

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candice's avatar

🥰🥰

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darci's avatar

omg are we the same person? a couple months ago i ran across a fiber artist who embroidered her entire website and it felt like an actually creative website from the early 2000s rather than the cookie cutter web design that everyone uses for their art portfolios. i suddenly realized i always hated (and eventually abandoned) my portfolio websites because they looked like a wash of white splattered with minimalist bullshit instead of something raw and authentic to my art. yes to creating a personal website that's aggressively pink!

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candice's avatar

hehe hi twin but yes omg i was so bored of the minimalist crap!! everything looks the same!! also that embroidery website sounds absolutely incredible i love that idea so much. i just love seeing the depths of people's creativity and the amount of time that went into creating something so unique!

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Mary Nolte's avatar

This is such a simple but brilliant concept! It's not about cutting things out of our life, it's about adding new things to take up the space of the bad habits. I love this so much!

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candice's avatar

it's always the simplest ideas :’)

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Mary Nolte's avatar

It really is!

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Taylor Gardner's avatar

I love this candiceeee!!! Also thinking lots about *projects for the sake of projects* and *research for the sake of research* and how we are conditioned to think these projects need to have an end goal rather than just being a way to enjoy our little lives

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candice's avatar

thank you taylor <33 i love that you always get it, love your mind always

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Christine's avatar

This! currently working on my biggest crochet blanket yet with a podcast about the titanic ✨

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candice's avatar

b l i s s

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Sophie Paluch's avatar

I really enjoyed this piece it made me think (and I've thought for a while) how easily I just scroll. I'm intrigued to know if you use social media to 'push' people to your YouTube channel...sorry if you may have mentioned this before I am a new reader :-)

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candice's avatar

thank you! and happy to answer your questions dw, i don't have any social media or use anything to send people to my youtube apart from the odd hyperlink in my essays here and pinterest! i just always pray the youtube seo gods are working in my favour lol

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Zoe's avatar

Love this!

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candice's avatar

thank you🥰

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Brittany Viklund's avatar

I love this. 💞 There are so many beautiful ways to live without our phones, thank you for keeping that conversation going!!

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candice's avatar

thank you for saying that :') i feel like it's a v important conversation so i won't be stopping anytime soon!

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joan’s cave 🍇's avatar

this is such a neat idea for a post and I see you with the various open projects 🫡

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candice's avatar

hehe thank you girl, this is very kind <3

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hero williams's avatar

Would love some updates on the personal website 👀 it’s something i’ve been meaning to explore without really having an idea of where to start

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candice's avatar

oh perhaps I'll give little updates on how it's coming along in the subscriber chat :') also would recommend looking through other personal websites and see what styles you're drawn to and starting there! and then once you get into the swing of things you can tweak and make it even more personal 🩷

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Christine's avatar

I love this!! 💯

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Letsmakeaway's avatar

I wrote something about doom scrolling today and I then came across this post. I love the way you articulated this post and all the things you are doing to stay too busy for some of the time stealing apps. Thank you for sharing, I am glad I found this

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Chris Barr's avatar

Brilliantly said

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